A lesson of 4 wives : Christian perspective
A lesson of 4 wives
There was a rich merchant who had 4 wives. He loved the 4th wife the most and
adorned her with rich robes and treated her to delicacies. He took great care of
her and gave her nothing but the best.
He also love the 3rd wife very much. He's very proud of her and always
wanted to show off her to his friends. However, the merchant is always in great
fear that she might run away with some other men.
He too, loved his 2nd wife.She's a very considerate person, always patient and
in fact is the merchant confidante. Whenever the merchant faced some problems,
he always turned to his 2nd wife and she would always help him out and tide him
through difficult times.
Now, the merchant's 1st wife is a very loyal partner and has made great
contributions in maintaining his wealth and business as well as taking care of
the household. However, the merchant did not love the 1st wife and although she
loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her. One day, the merchant fell ill.
Before long, he knew that he was going to die soon.
He thought of his luxurious life and told himself,
"Now I have 4 wives with me. But when I die, I'll be alone. How lonely I'll
be".
Thus he asked the 4th wife, "I loved you most, endowed you with the finest
clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, Will you follow
me and keep me company".
"No way!" replied the 4th wife and she walked away without another
word. The answer cut like a sharp knife right into the merchant's heart.
The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife,"I love you so much for all my
life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep company?".
"No!" replied the 3rd wife.
"Life is so good over here! I'm going to remarry when you die!". The
merchant's heart sank and turned cold.
He then asked the 2nd wife, "I always turned to you for help and and
you've always helped me out. Now I need your help again. When I die will you
follow me and keep me company?".
"I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!" replied the 2nd wife.
"At the very most, I can only send you to your grave". The answer came
like a bolt of thunder and the merchant was devastated. Then a voiced call out:
"I'll leave with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go." The
merchant looked up and there was his 1st wife. She was so skinny, almost like
she suffered from malnutrition. Greatly grieved, the merchant said " I
should have taken much better care of you while I could have!".
Actually, we all have 4 wives in our lives ..................
The 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making
it look good, it'll leave with us when we die. Our 3rd wife? Our
possessions, status and wealth. When we die, they all go to others. The 2nd wife
is our family and friends. No matter how close they had been there for us when
we're alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.
The 1st wife is in fact our soul, often neglected in our pursuit of material
wealth and sensual pleasure.Guess what? It's actually the only thing that
follows us wherever we go.
Perhaps it's a good idea to cultivate and strengthen it now rather than to wait
until we're on our deathbed to lament